I had an epiphany in the shower a few weeks ago, and I’m just now getting around to writing about it.
In March, my husband and I went to the Big Island of Hawaii and stayed at the Hilton Resort in Waikaloa. This place had multiple restaurants, attractive guys serving you drinks every time you turned around, and lots of places to relax. We certainly did our fair share of eating and drinking… everyone needs a vacation. I won’t pretend like I didn’t gorge myself all day and night. But now I will get to the point… one night at dinner I was perusing the menu and came across the kids menu. I never really pay attention to it because it’s the same anywhere you go… hotdogs, cheeseburgers, french fries, and mac and cheese. Days later I was in the shower and it hit me… THAT’S IT!!! The kid’s menu is always the same! Always the same fried/grilled/cheese-smothered options. Why? Who decided that kids can only eat that junk at restaurants? It has become such a part of our culture that we don’t even notice anymore. And it teaches kids from a young age that that type of food is what they are expected to eat!
Now, I don’t have kids, but can they really only eat hotdogs, cheeseburgers, french fries and mac and cheese? Why do we teach our children that “their food” that they are expected to eat is all fried and junky? We don’t just expect them to eat that food… it’s the only option we give them at most restaurants. Why do we teach them that a dinner out means eating like crap? It just doesn’t make any sense!!
Now, I’m not saying that we should expect our 2 year old to eat a grilled chicken breast and steamed vegetables. But whats wrong with some whole wheat pasta and marinara? What about some rice and vegetables and chicken? Why do we teach them that it has to be fried to taste good?
I am a firm believer that your taste for food is shaped by what you regularly eat. I grew up in a house where a burger was ground beef shaped into a patty, where vegetables were steamed or boiled and put on your plate as-is. Butter and salt didn’t really exist in my house growing up. And, in college, I lived with a girl who grew up on a farm where she literally scraped the cream off of the milk that just came out of her cow before she drank it. Where a buger included not only beef, but eggs, bread crumbs and all sorts of things. And green beans were cooked “fat back” style with bacon, grease, and God knows what else. And the way we grew up shaped how we cooked and ate in college.
I think that eating healthy comes more easily for me than for someone who grew up in a house like my roommate did. I don’t mind bland tasting food because that is what I am used to. I can eat grilled chicken, plain green beans and brown rice for dinner because, for me, that was a normal meal growing up.
So, why can’t we do the same for our kids? Why can’t we change the thinking from a kid’s menu being full of fried food to instead some better options that still taste good and don’t set them up for a future of heart disease?
As Oprah says, “When you know better, you do better.”